Violence in children can come in many different levels and ways. While part of growing up is learning how to handle certain emotions, it is now always possible for a child to skate through their childhood without ever showing some sort of anger towards another. While boys are more likely to do this than girls, violence can come from anyone at any time. It is simply important for you to understand violent children, what the risk factors how and how to handle violent kids, whether they are your own or they are someone inside of the school. Granted, you always need help from the parents, but with this help, you can transform the child and ensure they reduce the potential of a violent outcry.
According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP), there are several different factors that point to the potential of future violent behavior. While this does not necessarily mean a child is going to outbreak, it does increase the chances of it taking place. First, a child who has previously shown signs of aggressive and violent behavior are more likely to do it again. If the child is a victim of physical abuse and/or sexual abuse inside of their home, they are more likely to act out in this kind of a manor. If they are regularly exposed to violent media, ranging from television and movies to video games and print. The use of drugs and alcohol at a young age does significantly alter the way a child acts while growing up, so this is a common factor, and studies show the presence of firearms in a home also can increase the chance of violent behavior at school or in the house. In terms of genetic situations, family heredity can cause a child to outbreak, if there is family history with these sorts of situations. Also, brain damage from a previous head injury can possible cause an increase in violent behavior and the development of violent children.
While the other elements are factors of potentially violent children, there are some set warning signs you need to know of. If a child has demonstrated one or several warning signs and they also have several risk factors, it is very important to work with the child immediately, before the situation can become worse. First, intense anger is the top sign of potentially violent kids. They might become quick to anger, shout at other students, grow extremely frustrated during homework and other activities they are not able to grasp immediately. These can lead to the loss of temper and blow-ups. Extreme irritability also is common, and can relate to their school work, attempting to perform a task that just does not seem to work out, which eventually leads to the child becoming easily frustrated. These can be signs of a mental disorder or just anger issues. However, when a child or children start to demonstrate these kinds of warning signs, it is important to seek out some sort of help and not just allow it to continue. These are not areas where a child is just going to grow out of it. Often times it becomes far worse and intensifies. Due to this, seeking out the proper assistance as soon as possible is vital.
How to Prevent Violent Behavior
First, if you work in a school system and are seeing risk signs and warning factors demonstrated by a particular child, you need to have them sit down with the school counselor. Here, it is possible to find out if there is any sort of physical, mental or sexual abuse going on inside of the household. A counselor can discuss issues with the child in order to find out what is going on and what they are feeling. If your child potentially is one of the violent children, you need to contact your healthcare provider and take them in to for an evaluation. It is possible they are suffering from some sort of a medical condition which can be addressed with treatment. They might be acting out also due to the lack of proper stimulation. Athletics and other outdoor activities is very important for a growing child, and helping them burn off energy and partake in the event is going to help them increase their confidence and reduce their anger level. Also, you need to look at the kind of material, video games, television and other content they come in contact with, whether it is at your house or a friend’s house. It is important to cut this material out as it is altering the way your child is acting. Chances are they are going to have some sort of a push back when trying to remove the more violent material, but eventually, your child is going to learn to cope with this sort of situation and deal with it in a less violent way.
There are other ways to work with your child as well. If you do not want to go immediately towards medication (few parents do), you need to understand that you are the adult and you hold the power, not your child. Aggressive children can make this difficult, but it is important to never back down from a punishment. Also, you know your child has a form of currency that is important to them. this is not just money, but it can be video games, television or clothing. You need to come up with proper punishments so they learn how to handle themselves. Remove the television from their room, cut off their clothing funding or do anything else that is going to change the way they act. But just remember, you always need to be the adult, keep your cool and make sure that you are in charge. A child is going to try to run you down, but you do not need, nor should you ever allow, this to happen with your child.